Real Talk w/Terry

Is It Ever Okay for A Woman to Pursue A Man?

I haven’t been single and on the dating scene in years and am wondering has the rules changed? “Is it ever okay for a woman to pursue a man?” I ask this question as a fan of Real Housewives of Atlanta (RHOA). This season a new house wife has joined the cast, Miss USA 1993, Kenya Moore. And she has been, shall we say nothing less than aggressive in her pursuit of a man to marry and get her pregnant.

Kenya Moore_RHOA

The most recent episode (#6) that aired this past Sunday, we viewers witnessed a hodge podge of mess which included: Kenya putting her boyfriend Walter on the spot about a ring, Kenya flirting with one of the wives’ husband, and then Kenya backing her thing up to yet another wife’s husband; all this happening in front of her boyfriend, Walter. We have since learned that the “Walter is my boyfriend charade” was an alleged lie! The focus of this post is not on her alleged lie about Walter being her boyfriend, but on her aggressive behavior in the pursuit of a man.

I personally think that it is definitely out of order for a woman to pursue a man. However, maybe I’m old fashioned, maybe the rules have changed; has the rules changed? The bible says in Proverbs 18:22, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the LORD.” The bible is clear that a man who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor; not a woman finding a man. In the beginning God created woman for man. God created Man or Adam as a complete person. He then said that it is not good that man should be alone; every animal, every beast had a companion, but there was no suitable companion for man. God therefore, created woman from the rib of Adam to be his help meet.

This being said, what are your thoughts on women who pursue men?

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